Completely Random Thoughts

[soguru]

Hey, welcome back, Soguru!
Hope you're doing better.

Thank you Edward! I am better to some extent. I still have my good days and bad days though. Mostly bad nights though. 

[RVR II]

Well Soguru, we'd love for you to stick around and hang out with the cool peoplez

[Sideswipe]

Well, things have to be doing better if youve got your shit sorted out enough to get back on here.

[Miku Fan]

Soguru, that's Sideswipe's way of saying, "Welcome back!  Glad you're feeling better!"

[RVR II]

Or just do what Im does and delete your posts every now and then

[RVR II]

Running morning errands and discover the wife's minivan is 800 miles overdue on an oil change again.. Bring it to her attention yet again and she says she doesn't know where to look even though I've shown her Many Times where the little decal is on the windshield
So I stopped by my friend's mechanic shop and luckily there wasn't a long line. In and out in 30 minutes and the next oil change it will be time for it's 60000 mile servicing. Joy

[Kete]

You know you don't really have to do it every 3000 miles, right?

[Quantum Vagina]

I'm 24, no one has ever told me that I need to get married and start a family, he'll no one has even ASKED me when I was going to do that. Why do I feel such an immense pressure to do it then? I don't even LIKE marriage. Starting a family can wait for ten years. So why am I feeling like this is something I need to do soon.

Oh, yeah, all estrogen might have something to do with that -_-.

[RVR II]

You know you don't really have to do it every 3000 miles, right?

We were told by the dealer every 5000 miles when we had a warranty but now the warranty went out last year so I try to get it changed around the 3000 mile mark to protect the engine

[MSTJedi]

I'm 24, no one has ever told me that I need to get married and start a family, he'll no one has even ASKED me when I was going to do that. Why do I feel such an immense pressure to do it then? I don't even LIKE marriage. Starting a family can wait for ten years. So why am I feeling like this is something I need to do soon.

Oh, yeah, all estrogen might have something to do with that -_-.

Maybe it is hormones. But if you aren't absolutely, 100% sure . . . don't. Take it from someone who's dealing with the fallout of a poorly thought-out marriage. I thought I had to get married in my 20s because all my brothers did. I just thought that's what you did in order to have a happy life. Yeah, not so much.

[Quantum Vagina]

I'm 24, no one has ever told me that I need to get married and start a family, he'll no one has even ASKED me when I was going to do that. Why do I feel such an immense pressure to do it then? I don't even LIKE marriage. Starting a family can wait for ten years. So why am I feeling like this is something I need to do soon.

Oh, yeah, all estrogen might have something to do with that -_-.

Maybe it is hormones. But if you aren't absolutely, 100% sure . . . don't. Take it from someone who's dealing with the fallout of a poorly thought-out marriage. I thought I had to get married in my 20s because all my brothers did. I just thought that's what you did in order to have a happy life. Yeah, not so much.

Yeah,I'm not even remotely interested in the prospect of marriage. I personally think it's absolutely mental. Not knocking anyone who does it, but I don't like the idea of signing a piece of paper that days "I will love you and stay with you forever." If I want to stay with someone, then I will. If I dont, then I won't. It's pretty simple. But I feel like I've got this massive pressure on me to get married, get a house, have 3 kids. I can do that all WITHOUT the marriage part though.

[Kete]

I'm 24, no one has ever told me that I need to get married and start a family, he'll no one has even ASKED me when I was going to do that. Why do I feel such an immense pressure to do it then? I don't even LIKE marriage. Starting a family can wait for ten years. So why am I feeling like this is something I need to do soon.

Oh, yeah, all estrogen might have something to do with that -_-.

Hey QV.  When are you going to get married?

[Quantum Vagina]

I'm 24, no one has ever told me that I need to get married and start a family, he'll no one has even ASKED me when I was going to do that. Why do I feel such an immense pressure to do it then? I don't even LIKE marriage. Starting a family can wait for ten years. So why am I feeling like this is something I need to do soon.

Oh, yeah, all estrogen might have something to do with that -_-.

Hey QV.  When are you going to get married?

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

[soguru]

Some things just aren't for everybody . I mean, marriage, kids. Those are considered norms I guess, but if somebody doesn't feel comfortable or doesn't want to do that I don't think it's fair to tell them otherwise.

[RoninFox]

Feel the same way about kids. Erica and I do not want them. Every time Erica feels the slightest bit sick everyone at work tries to tell her she's pregnant. We get questions all the time about "when you are going to have your first kid?" Nothing against kids, I love my niece and nephews, I'm just not looking to add to the population.