I don't post here much but..
Got an ongoing issue with my soon-to-be ex-roomate that helped me build my Mega-Shed on my vacant lot next door back in 2011 and has been living in it ever since. I owed him $10000 dollars for labor owed that I have been paying off since January, 2012; He would pay me $300 a month where $150 would go towards the monthly utility bill and the other $150 I let him keep to put towards the labor owed.
I've mentioned him before in the completely random thoughts and RRRRRARRRRRGH threads I believe because back in September, 2015, I asked for the $150 utility payment 1 day early because we were heading off to Mexico October 1st and he went off on me by email saying that it wasn't his problem it was mine and saying "I'm not your ATM", and accused me of spying on him yet he installed cameras when I was in Mexico spying my me and my property, threatened to call the police if I had anymore fires in my outdoor fireplace, as well as threatening to call animal control about my dog so I had to basically give him away. A couple months back he threw out 8 rolls of insulation that were for under the floor and got rained on a little as well as dragging my chest freezer out and shoving it up against the back gate to where I couldn't open it. I have since sold the insulation and chest freezer. I also got word from one of his coworkers that he poisoned my bunnies while I was in Mexico just before we got back and he bragged about it to his coworkers! And just a couple weeks ago while I was at a St Patrick's Day event in downtown, he chains up and locks my back gate preventing me access to that portion of my property!
We were friends for over 18 years and I knew he had mental issues but I, as well as my family tried to help him by giving him work over the years but he ended that back in September with his psycho actions and accusations!
Now as the remaining balance is $595, I have refused any further payment from him. I had an attorney draw up a '30 Day Notice of Termination of Agreement' to be sent to him the end of this month stating that effective May 2, he will have 30 days to vacate the property.
The next couple of months are gonna be interesting because the remaining balance as of this month is $595 and now he's starting to wonder what I'm doing because he didn't pay anything in March and I just refused April's payment and then he sends me an email asking if I'm waiting on our agreement to end before putting him out? I didn't reply as I don't need any additional stress because of his bipolar issues and it's quite possible he could do something stupid that will require me to call the police.
I simply want him gone by the end of May but if he chooses to pack up earlier then I'm all for that but I just don't think this will go very smoothly 
And so it begins..
This weekend, the idiot mounted 2 infrared cameras (one on each end) of my Mega-Shed aimed directly on my house and backyard. We have to keep our bathroom blind closed now or he can see right in! Talked to the police about it this morning and they said theirs nothing they can do about it as he has the right to aim them where ever he wants so long as they are not inside my home..
In fact, he helped me install my 10 year old surveillance system when I bought it brand new back in 2006 (including programming the IP addresses and passwords) so it's quite possible he may have access to all 8 of my inside and outside cameras but without executing a search warrant, it's just a suspicion and if it turns out he actually didn't have access then I could get in trouble, so I bought another DVR from Amazon that will be here tomorrow to eliminate that possibility..
Also contacted my attorneys and they will be sending out that '30 Day Notice of Termination of Agreement' letter today to make it official that he has till May 31 to vacate my property so the next 5 weeks are gonna be interesting
Topic: General Psychology Thread (for non-emergency and long-term issues) (Read 48479 times)