General Psychology Thread (for non-emergency and long-term issues)

[MSTJedi]

Just because someone is a 'great girlfriend' doesn't necessarily mean that you are compatible together.  So the one doesn't necessarily correspond to the other.

I can second that. My son's mom was an amazing girlfriend. Sweet, thoughtful, and great in bed. But after a while, I realized that our personalities just didn't sync. Not for me, anyway. So I broke it off. And then she found out she was pregnant. Sigh... Sometimes I think my divorce is karma paying me back for what I did during that time. I was kind of an ass.

[Quantum Vagina]

Just because someone is a 'great girlfriend' doesn't necessarily mean that you are compatible together.  So the one doesn't necessarily correspond to the other.

I can second that. My son's mom was an amazing girlfriend. Sweet, thoughtful, and great in bed. But after a while, I realized that our personalities just didn't sync. Not for me, anyway. So I broke it off. And then she found out she was pregnant. Sigh... Sometimes I think my divorce is karma paying me back for what I did during that time. I was kind of an ass.

The reason we're trying to remain friends is because our personalities are in such sync. He'd had to step away because he felt like he was responsible for curing my depression and stopped loving me because of it.

[anais.butterfly]

I met a man I am actually attracted to, and it's weird. Shit just got real.

So is he a Man's-Man, a Ladies-Man, a Man-Bear-Pig?

Whichever one makes him super smart, really funny, and....well also super hot (well, to me: super tall and skinny, I mean HOW? I friggin get off watching American Ninja Warrior and this guy, although all muscle, couldn't get more muscle mass or muscle definition to save his life...but I digress....)

I also digress because he lives in Denver, and I am still here....for now*



*I was planning on moving back to D-town before I met him.

[Quantum Vagina]

I met a man I am actually attracted to, and it's weird. Shit just got real.

So is he a Man's-Man, a Ladies-Man, a Man-Bear-Pig?

Whichever one makes him super smart, really funny, and....well also super hot (well, to me: super tall and skinny, I mean HOW? I friggin get off watching American Ninja Warrior and this guy, although all muscle, couldn't get more muscle mass or muscle definition to save his life...but I digress....)

I also digress because he lives in Denver, and I am still here....for now*



*I was planning on moving back to D-town before I met him.

super skinny guys don't do it for me... I like at least some muscle structure. Don't have to be huge guys, but a bit... and a beard... and a healthy smattering of body hair...

[anais.butterfly]

super skinny guys don't do it for me... I like at least some muscle structure. Don't have to be huge guys, but a bit... and a beard... and a healthy smattering of body hair...

I love muscles, beards, and chest hair. This guys has none of those things*. Despite all this, I was still attracted to him. It's weird. Not sure if I like it. There is a lot of safety in never putting yourself out there to the opposite sex.

*Well he has muscles, but like I said, he is still super skinny.

[Quantum Vagina]

super skinny guys don't do it for me... I like at least some muscle structure. Don't have to be huge guys, but a bit... and a beard... and a healthy smattering of body hair...

I love muscles, beards, and chest hair. This guys has none of those things*. Despite all this, I was still attracted to him. It's weird. Not sure if I like it. There is a lot of safety in never putting yourself out there to the opposite sex.

*Well he has muscles, but like I said, he is still super skinny.

My ex wasn't muscly... but he has a sexy personality.

Actually had a near sexual thing with him today..  feeling like an idiot. Angry hate sex. I knew it was a bad idea, I'm glad we stopped. Still feel annoyed. It didn't mean anything, just... he's so pretty :\

[Hung william]

PLEASE

[Quantum Vagina]

PLEASE

No.

[anais.butterfly]

PLEASE

Hammer, don't hurt 'em

[RVR II]

PLEASE

MAY I HAVE ANOTHER??

[anais.butterfly]

PLEASE Thank you sir,

MAY I HAVE ANOTHER??

Get on the ball, RVR

[RVR II]

PLEASE Thank you sir,

MAY I HAVE ANOTHER??

Get on the ball, RVR

Yes Maam! 

[Quantum Vagina]

PLEASE Thank you sir,

MAY I HAVE ANOTHER??

Get on the ball, RVR

Yes Maam! 

Careful, RVR seems to be engaging masochism mode

[Quantum Vagina]

So, when I was with Bas, there was a friend of his, a girl, who he spent a lot of time with. Tonight, he tells me that he's been getting something going with her.

[Quantum Vagina]

I see someone about to get banned is what I fucking see.