My friend's 22 year old son is fresh out of college and has his first apartment. I've known the kid for years and I see him often at a local food store. When he was a teenager his mom told me he had a crush on me and we laughed, it was cute. Anyway, he asked me if I wanted to come over next week for dinner and to check out his place. Now, I love the kid but did he just ask me on a date or is he just being nice? I'm 35 and used to babysit him for christ sake, and he knows my boyfriend. Afraid to say no and upset him, but what if I go and he sees it as a date? The male mind, still a puzzle to me.