I've been having issues. I'm in a good, stable relationship. I love him, he loves me. We listen to each other's needs.Everything is going great. Except that I resent him for not being my ex.It's stupid, it's ridiculous, and I hate myself for it. They're even similar people, except my new boyfriend is 13 years older. We get along despite our differences in opinions on politics. I feel like I'm sabotaging it by constantly being annoyed that he's not Bas, and I just don't know what to do.