General Psychology Thread (for non-emergency and long-term issues)

[Miku Fan]

Progress update: The move out of psycho continues at a slow but steady pace
 
Just 2 more weeks to go..

Ain't over 'til it's over.

This is true

You ARE going to murder him, to avenge the bunnies, right?


Also, he can't cause any immigration trouble for "The Wife," can he?   I wouldn't put anything past this guy...be careful and keep your eyes open.

I'm a firm believer in Karma

The wife became a Naturalized Citizen back in 2006 so she's good. I just want the guy gone and if he tries anything stupid, he'll just be shooting himself in the foot so to speak 

Yeah, I wasn't serious about murder.      Karma WILL take care of this guy...   

I'm glad Mrs. VR can't be hassled! 


Hopefully, he wants to move on with his life, and will do just that.

[RVR II]

Progress update: The move out of psycho continues at a slow but steady pace
 
Just 2 more weeks to go..

Ain't over 'til it's over.

This is true

You ARE going to murder him, to avenge the bunnies, right?


Also, he can't cause any immigration trouble for "The Wife," can he?   I wouldn't put anything past this guy...be careful and keep your eyes open.

I'm a firm believer in Karma

The wife became a Naturalized Citizen back in 2006 so she's good. I just want the guy gone and if he tries anything stupid, he'll just be shooting himself in the foot so to speak 

Yeah, I wasn't serious about murder.      Karma WILL take care of this guy...   

I'm glad Mrs. VR can't be hassled! 


Hopefully, he wants to move on with his life, and will do just that.

The first part of the week was a steady flow of him moving boxes out of there but nothing the last few days (probably due to the rainy weather), but so far it appears he will be out by the end of May.
Keep your fingers crossed

[RVR II]

Looks like he just finished loading another load into his van to be taken out early in the morning so the move is still progressing..
Less than a week and a half to go

[Quantum Vagina]

I've been having issues. I'm in a good, stable relationship. I love him, he loves me. We listen to each other's needs.Everything is going great. Except that I resent him for not being my ex.It's stupid, it's ridiculous, and I hate myself for it. They're even similar people, except my new boyfriend is 13 years older. We get along despite our differences in opinions on politics. I feel like I'm sabotaging it by constantly being annoyed that he's not Bas, and I just don't know what to do.

[anais.butterfly]

I've been having issues. I'm in a good, stable relationship. I love him, he loves me. We listen to each other's needs.Everything is going great. Except that I resent him for not being my ex.It's stupid, it's ridiculous, and I hate myself for it. They're even similar people, except my new boyfriend is 13 years older. We get along despite our differences in opinions on politics. I feel like I'm sabotaging it by constantly being annoyed that he's not Bas, and I just don't know what to do.

Well, I think you are probably not really *over* Bas. So, first, you really, really need to say goodbye to him. You can write a letter to him you never send or you can do some sort of cleansing ritual. I also tend to literally destroy every keepsake. Like one time, I burned over 600 postcards.

Sorry I can't help more.

[RVR II]

I burned over 600 postcards.

AH HA!
I found the culprit for Global Warming!

[anais.butterfly]

I burned over 600 postcards.

AH HA!
I found the culprit for Global Warming!

Naw, I didn't have a car for over a year, so my carbon footprint is still clean.

[ScottotD]

When you realize the reason you probably don't like adult drama is because actual mature feelings, problems and emotions are so scary and alien to you but you'll cry at the drop at a hat at any kids movie especially when it's about friendship, a parent/mentor and child building a bond or generally connecting with people because those are the things you want most in the world.

[RVR II]

Psycho has been busy today..
Didn't go into work but he moved out 4 van loads of his crap out of my Mega-Shed..
Probably trying to beat the rainy weather that's moving in here by Sunday from a newly formed tropical depression that formed off the coast today.
What ever, just so long as he's gone in less than 5 days.

[RVR II]

Another 5 or 6 loads were moved out today including all appliances (washer, dryer, fridge, and window ac unit) as well as the cameras that were aimed towards my house have been removed
Won't be much longer before he's gone for good with 3 days to go

[RVR II]

Moved the last of his possessions out today and thought he was going to leave a day early but no-no..
no-no..

Looks like he's going to 'camp-out' inside his van in the Mega-Shed driveway..
He's run an extension cord out to the van to power his portable AC unit and rigged his mobile digital antenna on to the roof of his van.

Oh, and he was even nice enough dump his old tube tv in the yard and he slung a few rocks at the screen shattering it.
The parting actions of a 46 year old adolescent ladies and gentlemen

[Miku Fan]

What a dick.

[RVR II]

What a dick.

Actually, it looks like he already left for good a couple hours ago
So I decided to go over and check out the inside but he apparently changed the door locks and never returned the keys..
No big deal really as I had already planned on calling a locksmith to re-key all the door locks on both my house and the Mega-Shed anyway before we left for Mexico so I guess I'll be giving them a call first thing in the morning
Went ahead and threw that tv in the garbage can since trash day is tomorrow and went ahead and wheeled it down to the street so that'll be one less thing to worry about.

[LucasM]

What a dick.

Actually, it looks like he already left for good a couple hours ago
So I decided to go over and check out the inside but he apparently changed the door locks and never returned the keys..
No big deal really as I had already planned on calling a locksmith to re-key all the door locks on both my house and the Mega-Shed anyway before we left for Mexico so I guess I'll be giving them a call first thing in the morning
Went ahead and threw that tv in the garbage can since trash day is tomorrow and went ahead and wheeled it down to the street so that'll be one less thing to worry about.

Glad he is gone and the new locks were already planned for.

But old tube TV's are the source of some MAJOR lead poisoning of the environment. If you have a Best Buy near you, they'll take and recycle it for free. Otherwise, it is considered toxic waste and (at least around here) requires special disposal. So please don't just toss it in the trash.

[RVR II]

The city has a recycling truck that will come by and pick it up

My Happy pic as I officially take full control of my Mega-Shed after 4 1/2 years