So, my mother is in the red on a lot of bills. I pay rent to help her out, because she's helped me for a lot of my adult life. I make around 850/check, which isn't a huge amount, but it's not terrible, and I pay the equivalent of what an apartment in the city would cost me. Since the resolution of her ultimatum regarding weed and her realizing that I was serious about leaving and that if I left I'd be done paying her because I don't have money and essentially she was kicking me out, she's become downright aggressive over how much I need to pay her. As far as she's concerned I need to be giving her about 400 every check, which would essentially prevent me from maintaining any kind of savings, which is important right now because I'm fuckin' done living here. When she found out that kicking me out meant no more cash flow, and realized that I was right in telling her that it was the wrong hill for her to die on(after she tried to convince me that it was a worse financial decision for me than her because I definitely would be losing a house over something as stupid as someone smoking weed outside...), I get to leave on my own terms instead of being rushed out. I found an apartment that looks really good, only requires a 500 dollar deposit, 2 beds, 1 bath, 710 a month, probably around 1k after utilities and bills. She begged me to stay in a house that's triggering for me to be in until at least December. I said I'll compromise and instead of doing one lump sum once a month, I'd do 250 on pay day. This means that my earnings of around 2000/month would leave me with 200 dollars AFTER paying off my mother, the debt collector, and household expenses. That's basically enough for groceries for the month. I'll have to pick up an extra shift a week to be able to afford to do this and save any money for emergencies. She wanted 400 today, and I got paid 777, so that can't happen because I've got a vet bill for Ein, I've got to pick up my car from the shop, and I've got to pay off the fucking 150 for the debt collector or else they'll demand the remaining sum of 3000 which I don't fucking have. I fucking hate her for guilting me like this. People keep saying that I should move out, and I really, really fucking wanna.